No matter how much we don’t like to admit it, but a few people can make a big impact on our lives but then go away just like that; a best friend, lover, family member…anyone of them….As much as we may wish it weren’t so, a plain fact of human relationships is this: People come and people go.
Someone that we have loved with all of our hearts one day can, quite literally, vanish from our lives the next. Not necessarily from death. Not even from rancor. Sometimes simple circumstance can take a best friend, a lover or a partner right out of your hands, never to be seen again.
That’s sad. But that’s life.
There are times that I sit in the sun and just think of all the people who have wandered away from me. I remember all of the people that I have wandered away from. And then I wonder, will there ever be a time when they might reconnect?may be yes…may be no…
“People come, people go – they’ll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favorite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past.”
There’s a quote that goes something like, “People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime,” which really resonates with my life.
Instead of dwelling on the pain of saying goodbye to a friendship, look at it as a chapter that was filled with many memories and now lessons that will forever live with you. Sometimes we are welcomed by friendships that aren’t meant to last forever, but are meant to teach us and help us grow on our beautiful journeys.
On the contrary, sometimes we have to learn when to let go and continue on our journey. It takes courage to stand up and realize that sometimes you need to move forward.
Life is mysterious and relationships are just another addition to our journey. Through the ups and the downs we must appreciate it, for it’s all a part of who we are today. Not one of us goes through life experiencing perfect relationships; in fact, the only way to uncover life’s treasures is to experience them.
Yes, people do come and enter your life then after sometime, they would leave and that’s it. It was over. It still doesn’t make sense to me but one thing I know is certain. There is always a reason why you knew them. It must not be clear for you that moment but sooner or later, you will discover it.
Stay happy,stay blessed :)
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Dealing with difficult people
Finally after a real long time…got back into my senses…and decided to say goodbye to those people who are really not contributing in my journey of life in a positive way….
Have u ever felt irritated with the mere presence of some person…???
There are many such persons whom we cannot ignore yet cant stand their behavior…and have to deal with that so called know-it-all bullshit for a real long time…
and then somewhere it starts degrading us as a person…degrading emotionally…
Here are series of mistakes i made while i did that :
i thought it will be okay as time passes{it only got worse}
ignored the hidden signs {its always good to have a loyal enemy than friend with malafide intentions}
cold wars {cold wars are of no good…it only take your peace away}
Remember that you don’t have to be close with everyone; just being polite goes a long way toward getting along and appropriately dealing with difficult people.
that’s what i exactly did…i chose to be happy…i chose to be peaceful…it only took a call to avoid this…its we who complicate things and crib about it…nothing can really bother us if we really are firm on our stand….
finally said goodbye to those unwanted irritating people…. :)
life is too short to be sad or disturbed :)
Have u ever felt irritated with the mere presence of some person…???
There are many such persons whom we cannot ignore yet cant stand their behavior…and have to deal with that so called know-it-all bullshit for a real long time…
and then somewhere it starts degrading us as a person…degrading emotionally…
Here are series of mistakes i made while i did that :
i thought it will be okay as time passes{it only got worse}
ignored the hidden signs {its always good to have a loyal enemy than friend with malafide intentions}
cold wars {cold wars are of no good…it only take your peace away}
Remember that you don’t have to be close with everyone; just being polite goes a long way toward getting along and appropriately dealing with difficult people.
that’s what i exactly did…i chose to be happy…i chose to be peaceful…it only took a call to avoid this…its we who complicate things and crib about it…nothing can really bother us if we really are firm on our stand….
finally said goodbye to those unwanted irritating people…. :)
life is too short to be sad or disturbed :)
"Eleven Hints for Life"
1. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
2. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
3. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
4. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
5. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
6. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
7. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
8. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.
9. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
2. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
3. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
4. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
5. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
6. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
7. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
8. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.
9. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
Secret of Healthy and Happy life....
Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer and reflection
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in previous yr.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
Personality:
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day —- and while you walk, smile.
11. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don’t over do; keep your limits.
14. Don’t take yourself so seriously; no one else does.
15. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Community:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right things.
33. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. Forgiveness heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, don’t take it for granted – embrace life.
39. Your inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not least:
40. Enjoy LIFE!
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer and reflection
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in previous yr.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
Personality:
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day —- and while you walk, smile.
11. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don’t over do; keep your limits.
14. Don’t take yourself so seriously; no one else does.
15. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Community:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right things.
33. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. Forgiveness heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, don’t take it for granted – embrace life.
39. Your inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not least:
40. Enjoy LIFE!
❤ ❤ God is Love ❤ ❤
Yeh dil tuta tha
Tutne ke baad kisi ne parwah bhi nahi ki iski
Bechare ko bahut dukh hua
Bahut roya
Bahut dukhi hua :(
Kitney saal beet gaye kisi ne bhi isko nahi pucha
Phir yeh Bechara khud utha
Phir se kisi ko talashne chala
Aur isko who mila
Jisney isey gale se lagaya
Phir se jod diya
Aur iske saare dukh dur kar diya
Phir yeh dil bahut mazbut ho gaya
Aur dusru ko bhi issey mila raha hai
Iss dil ko apne God Ji mil gaye
Jo issey sabse zyada pyar kartey hai
Phir iss dil ne socha main kyu iss duniya ke liye rota hu
Main kyu iss duniya ke wajah se rota hu
Jab yeh duniya bananey wala mujhse itna pyar karta hai to main kyu na issey pyar kar lu
Bas phir kya tha iss dil ko apne Bhagwan se pyar ho gaya
Aur ussey sab kuch mil gaya❤❤
Tutne ke baad kisi ne parwah bhi nahi ki iski
Bechare ko bahut dukh hua
Bahut roya
Bahut dukhi hua :(
Kitney saal beet gaye kisi ne bhi isko nahi pucha
Phir yeh Bechara khud utha
Phir se kisi ko talashne chala
Aur isko who mila
Jisney isey gale se lagaya
Phir se jod diya
Aur iske saare dukh dur kar diya
Phir yeh dil bahut mazbut ho gaya
Aur dusru ko bhi issey mila raha hai
Iss dil ko apne God Ji mil gaye
Jo issey sabse zyada pyar kartey hai
Phir iss dil ne socha main kyu iss duniya ke liye rota hu
Main kyu iss duniya ke wajah se rota hu
Jab yeh duniya bananey wala mujhse itna pyar karta hai to main kyu na issey pyar kar lu
Bas phir kya tha iss dil ko apne Bhagwan se pyar ho gaya
Aur ussey sab kuch mil gaya❤❤
Dil se... (frm Heart) !!
I was once sad and lonely,
Having nobody to comfort me,
So I wore a mask that always smiled;
To hide my feelings behind a lie.
Before long, I had many friends;
With my mask, I was one of them.
But deep inside, I still felt empty,
Like I was missing a part of me.
Nobody could hear my cries at night
For I designed my mask to hide the lies.
Nobody could see the pain I was feeling
For I designed my mask to be laughing.
Behind all the smiles were the tears
And behind all the comfort were the fears.
Everything you think you see,
Wasn't everything there was to me.
Day by day,
I was slowly dying.
I couldn't go on,
There was something missing..
Until now I'm still searching
For the thing that'll stop my crying.
For someone who'll erase my fears,
For the person who'll wipe my tears.
But till then I'll keep on smiling.
Hiding behind this mask I'm wearing.
Hoping one day I can smile,
Till then, I'll be here.. waiting.
Having nobody to comfort me,
So I wore a mask that always smiled;
To hide my feelings behind a lie.
Before long, I had many friends;
With my mask, I was one of them.
But deep inside, I still felt empty,
Like I was missing a part of me.
Nobody could hear my cries at night
For I designed my mask to hide the lies.
Nobody could see the pain I was feeling
For I designed my mask to be laughing.
Behind all the smiles were the tears
And behind all the comfort were the fears.
Everything you think you see,
Wasn't everything there was to me.
Day by day,
I was slowly dying.
I couldn't go on,
There was something missing..
Until now I'm still searching
For the thing that'll stop my crying.
For someone who'll erase my fears,
For the person who'll wipe my tears.
But till then I'll keep on smiling.
Hiding behind this mask I'm wearing.
Hoping one day I can smile,
Till then, I'll be here.. waiting.
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