'Positives in Negatives'

A young woman was sitting at her dining table, worried about taxes to be paid, house-work to be done and to top it all, her family was coming over for Thanks giving the next day. She was not feeling very thankful at that time.

As she turned her gaze sideways, she noticed her young daughter scribbling furiously into her notebook.

“My teacher asked us to write a paragraph on “Negative Thanks giving” for homework today.”

said the daughter

“She asked us to write down things that we are thankful for, things that make us feel not so good in the beginning, but turn out to be good after all.”

With curiosity, the mother peeked into the book. This is what her daughter wrote:

“I’m thankful for Final Exams, because that means school is almost over.
I’m thankful for bad-tasting medicine, because it helps me feel better.
I’m thankful for waking up to alarm clocks, because it means I’m still alive.”

It then dawned on the mother, that she had a lot of things to be thankful for!

She thought again…

She had to pay taxes but that meant she was fortunate to be employed. She had house-work to do but that meant she had her own home to live in.
She had to cook for her family for Thanks giving but that meant she had a family with whom she could celebrate.

Moral:

We generally complain about the negative things in life but we fail to look at the positive side of it. What is the positive in your negatives?

Look at the better part of life this day and make it a great day"

I am happy n blessed

Some good tips of life :

1) Intention kitna bhi achha ho
Duniya presentation dekhti hai
Aur
Presentation kitana bhi accha ho, Uparwala Intention dekhta hai.
Choice is urs !
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2) "Everyone have two Eyes ... But
No one has the same View... "
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3) The most important quality of successful people is their willingness to change..
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4) "Human beings are very strange.
They have ego of their knowledge
but, they don't have knowledge of their ego".
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6) People who judge do not matter. People who matter do not judge.
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9) Alphabet "O" stands for Opportunity which is absent in Yesterday" Available only once in "Today", And thrice in "Tomorrow"
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10) "Pain Is Unavoidable but,
Suffering Is Optional"
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11) SOLID QUOTE: "Patthar Sirf ek bar Mandir Jaata hai aur Bhagwan Ban Jaata hai.
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Hum Roz Mandir Jakar bhi Patthar hi Rehte hain."
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12) Only messages are not life , but ...... our life should be a message to others!

Nothing..!!

When you own your attitude you own the way you react ~
When you own the way you react you own what upsets you ~
When you own what upsets you own the choice of calm ~
When you own being calm you create peace in your life ~
When you create peace in your life you are open to happiness ~
When you are open to happiness you are happy ~
When you are happy you make others happy ~
When you make others happy you spread joy ~
When you spread joy you shift your life and create opportunity ~
When you shift your life you inspire others ~
When YOU realize it is up to YOU ~
YOU have the POWER to accomplish ANYTHING ~
When you accomplish anything~
It is time for you to be NOTHING...

Aphorisms...

1. The nicest thing about the future is...that it always starts tomorrow.
2. Money will buy a fine dog...but only kindness will make him wag his tail.
3. If you don't have a sense of humour...you probably don't have any sense at all.
4. Seat belts are not as confining...as wheelchairs.
5. A good time to keep your mouth shut is...when you're in deep water.
6. How come it takes so little time for a child who is afraid of the dark...to become a teenager who wants to stay out all night?
7. Business conventions are important...because they demonstrate how many people a company can operate without.
8. Why is it that at class reunions...you feel younger than everyone else looks?
9. Scratch a cat (or dog)...and you will have a permanent job.
10. No one has more driving ambition than the teenage boy (or girl)...who wants to buy a car.
11. There are no new sins...the old ones just get more publicity.
12. There are worse things than getting a call for a wrong number at 4 am ...like, it could be the right number.
13. No one ever says "It's only a game"...when their team is winning.
14. I've reached the age where...'happy hour' is a nap.
15. Be careful about reading the fine print...there's no way you're going to like it.
16. The trouble with bucket seats is that...not everybody has the same size bucket.
17. Do you realize that, in about 40 years...we'll have thousands of old ladies running around with tattoos? (And rap music will be the Golden Oldies!)
18. Money can't buy happiness...but somehow it's more comfortable to cry in a Cadillac than in a Yugo.
19. After 60, if you don't wake up aching in every joint...you're probably dead.
20. Always be yourself because the people that matter don't mind...and the ones that mind don't matter.
21. Life isn't tied with a bow...but it's still a gift.

To laugh....

"To laugh is to risk appearing a fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out to another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
To place your ideas and dreams before a crowd is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To hope is to risk pain.
To try is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing."

~ William Arthur Ward

Life is Best for those.........

Life is Best for those, Who Knows How to Enjoy it;;
Difficult for Those, Who are Comparing it;;
Worst for Those, Who are Criticizing it;;
It is Our Attitude that Defines the 'Life'.
BECAUSE
A Maruti, Toyota OR a BMW,
the Road Remains the Same for All.

We Travel Economy Class OR Executive,
Our Destination Doesn't Change.

A Titan, Rado OR a Rolex,
the Time is the Same for Everyone.

There is Nothing Wrong in Dreaming OR Leading a Luxurious Life.

What Needs to be taken Care of is
"Let the NEED Not Become GREED."
Because
Needs Can Always Be Met
But
Greed is Never Fulfilled...!!

Its a Strange World..

Its a Strange World..
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If u praise someone, they think u must have your own mean in this.
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If u dont praise, they call u jealous.
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If u do extra care for someone, they think that u need them.
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If u show u don’t care, they call u selfish.
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If u regularly text your friends, they call u sticky.
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If u dont talk to them for a few days, they call u proudy.
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You can never make the whole world happy
So
Concentrate on the person u daily C in the Mirror.

Lovely message :

कुए में उतरने वाली बाल्टी यदि झुकती है,
तो भरकर बाहर आती है...

जीवन का भी यही गणित है,
जो झुकता है वह प्राप्त करता है...

जीवन में किसी का भला करोगे,
तो लाभ होगा...
क्योंकि भला का उल्टा लाभ होता है ।

और

जीवन में किसी पर दया करोगे,
तो वो याद करेगा...
क्योंकि दया का उल्टा याद होता है।
भरी जेब ने ' दुनिया ' की पहेचान करवाई और खाली जेब ने ' इन्सानो ' की.

जब लगे पैसा कमाने, तो समझ आया,
शौक तो मां-बाप के पैसों से पुरे होते थे,

अपने पैसों से तो सिर्फ जरूरतें पुरी होती है।
जन्म लिया है तो सिर्फ साँसे मत लीजिये,
जीने का शौक भी रखिये..
शमशान ऐसे लोगो की राख से...
भरा पड़ा है
जो समझते थे...
दुनिया उनके बिना चल नहीं सकती.
हाथ में टच फ़ोन,
बस स्टेटस के लिये अच्छा है…
सबके टच में रहो,
जींदगी के लिये ज्यादा अच्छा है…

10 BEST QUOTES ABOUT SUCCESS.

1. A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.

 2. You live longer once you realize that any time spent being unhappy is wasted.

 3. Things work out best for those who make the best of how things work out.

 4. Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.

 5. The only place where success comes before work is in the dictionary.

 6. Failure defeats losers, failure inspires winners.

 7. Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.

 8. Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.

 9. Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

 10. The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will power.

Mirchi Bajji Syndrome:

We all know how tasty, tempting this Mirchi Bajji is.. though it is veryy hot.. when we eat it, we do get water from eyes, nose and face sometimes becomes red ..... but still we enjoy eating it. Imagine when you are eating and somebody snatches from your hand .. as they cant see u in such a suffering, what happens????? You get angry... and take back the mirchi bajji and eat it again!! isnt it! we enjoy that suffering too... Moral: In our life, suffering is like the mirchi bajji.. which we enjoy even though if someone tries and helps us to get rid of that, we still want that suffering.. inviting more n more trouble please do take care of such small small things and get rid of such sufferings!!